officially attacked by tulle

It happened. I finally gave in and went dress shopping, though I've been engaged since July 3rd.

It was me, my Mom, Momma Dos, and Bff Numero Uno. We went to Alfred Angelo's first, because there was one dress in particular that I am in total love with.

Here's the one.

But it did NOT look good. Nopes.

So after trying on like four total dresses, I wanted to head over to David's Bridal. Now, even though I've avoided trying dresses on... I'm a firm believer in doing a bit of wedding research. These aren't $50 dresses. I wanted to know what details I liked, and didn't like before getting to a pushy ::coughcough:: err, I mean, very helpful associate. In fact, going dress shopping I had written down the particular styles I wanted to try on before leaving.

Alfred Angelo had only one style (shown above) I knew I was trying on, and the rest I just kept an open mind and let the associate pull things that would supposedly fit well on my body type. At David's Bridal, I had a longer list. And I tried maybe two or three dresses. At least two, didn't even make it out of the dressing room.

Then I got to try on the one dress that I've loved the minute I saw it online, and the style number on the top of my list. Literally, I had memorized the style number. I could tell you right now, but the fiance does occasionally glance at my blog. And this girl is taking no chances. ;)

Looks like I found my dress.

The only size availabe in the store was a good two sizes smaller than what I would need, and I still knew that it was The dress.

::squeal::

So folks, what have we learned here today?

1. Do your research. Know what you like, what you don't like. And don't be afraid to speak up! (I sent a few dresses back out of the fitting room without trying on, that were NOT me.)

2. Be flexible like Gumby. Allow the associates to recommend dresses that would flatter your shape. Things that you may not have considered. Keep an open mind. (There was one dress that everyone loved, and I only had it because the associate suggested it to me.)

3. Go with your gut. The dress I loved online, on the hanger, and on MY BODY, made me smile. It helped that everyone else said they loved it, but mattered more that I loved it.

And the fiance? After telling him I found The dress... his only question was,

"Is it made of all denim?"

Because as long as we wear all denim from head to toe at our wedding, we'll be good to go. Thanks Britney and Justin, for inspiring couples everywhere.

i can't avoid it any longer.

it's finally time.

wedding tutu.

I've been engaged since last July, and still have not tried any wedding dresses on. It's not that I'm not excited over wearing a super pretty dress, it's that I'm nervous as hell about finding one.

I'll explain why, a bit later.

I could always go the route of a skirt, like this white wedding tutu skirt from AllieJDesigns. Made from 400- 500 yards of bridal tulle (depending on the length), you could know what it feels like to be a ballerina for at least one day.

What a stupid sheep.

I really like this dress.

$725

And btw, it's not a line from Twilight. But, it is a spinoff of it. ;)

::gasp::

Lovelovelove this dress!

That is all.

Dress me.

In something like this.

Please.

Swoon

I can't remember when I first fell in ♥ with Lela Rose.....

but it happened. And there's no getting over it.

If only.

It's all in the details

Wedding dresses are not cheap. You know, I'm on a budget here, people. [And by people, I am referring to the bridal industry. Feel free to pass my opinions along.]

Well these dresses from Bloomingdales are so fashion forward, while being completely budget friendly. (For a wedding dress, at least.) Just think, if they were found in your local bridal store, the detail work alone would merit an unneccessary markup of at least several hundred additional dollars. Why is that? Is there a reason why the wedding dress gods have decided that in order to get something detailed and original, you must earn enough of an annual income to get you on Platinum Weddings? Too unfair.

So my best defense? For now, Bloomingdales.