The decision's already been made, to have an "Ipod Wedding." Between saving money, already having a mad amount of tunes, and the need to avoid anything remotely "dj-like".... Ipod it is.
To be specific, I've been corrected by Melvin that is a laptop wedding. Errr. Tomato, To-ma-to.
Now, all we need is to recruit a tech-savvy friend to be the music person. That, and find a speaker system slash microphone items that will be needed.