Bunny Love Bride

3.31.2009

in god we trust.

I bought my wedding penny for my shoe! And it comes with a drilled hole, and a date stamp of our wedding date. So then after the wedding day, I can make it into a necklace or charm to keep as a keepsake.

Yay.

Bowl me over.

We're not having a ring boy or flower girl, but if we were this would totally be the way to go.

Why?

We want to have an adults only reception.

Now when you mention this fact to people, you are either greeted with understanding or complete horror. Like you've just said a dirty word in church.

Let me elaborate, this was not a decision we came to lightly. We actually decided to SLASH our guest list to help maximize our budget. Our original dream was to have 100 people. Not uber big by any means. But, that was our game plan. Then, we realized that the biggest chunk of money was catering costs. So there went the 100 people. And we downsized to 50. If you knew me or Melvin, you might ask, "How in the world are you going to have just 50 people? Are you sniffing glue!" Because, we unfortunately have a lot of people we love that we can't see not having at our wedding. Eerrr.

We've done a few things to make a 50 person guest list possible. First things first: children. I think if you are going to invite one, you must invite them all. Well several of our close friends have children. And not just one, several. Well that could be anywhere from 5-9 kiddos. And the last thing we want to do is to offend them, or make them feel like we don't love their little ones [sidenote: we do. and i'm a picky kid liker.]. But if it means having to cut our grown up friends or family in order to not grossly exceed the guest list budget, we had to step up and make the decision to keep it adults only.

[btw- we're already at our OVER max. 65 people]

So yeah, that's the deal. Adults only is what we want. But how do we get it, without stepping on any toes? Hurting any feelings? And crippling our budget?

Any ideas on how to get the word out, from some brides who are going through the same thing?

3.29.2009

I don't speak spanish!

So last night, me and Melvin looked through all the papers the church gave us. One of which, introduced the book The Five Love Languages.

The author contends that people express and receive love in different ways. If you express love in a way your spouse does not understand, he or she won't realize you have expressed your love at all. It is as if you are speaking two different languages.

My sister first introduced me to this book, but we just last night spent some time reading a bit more about it.

As it turns out, my "love language" is Quality Time. His is Physical Touch (not shocking).

Turns out we really do speak different languages sometimes.