I never gave some grand gestures to my bridal party, asking them to be bridesmaids. I thought I would send them a card to ask, but really that never happened. In fact, several were in on the surprise engagement, and we were with me minutes after being proposed to.
So it kind of just came out, like "will you be my bridesmaid!"
And fortunately they said yes. ::sigh::
So when I saw this stackable ring on Etsy, it made me think of how I could have done it differently. Not better, just differently. But I'm not very patient. And I can't see not immediately asking, when I knew exactly who I would've wanted to be in the bridal party.
But don't worry, I've got some ideas up my sleeve.